each fabric is inspired by spring. deep in the midst of winter, it’s so refreshing & needed to add a bit of color to our days. some of the fabrics are vintage, too. my dear friend, kara, let me take a stack of vintage fabric off her hands so i am giddy to have bits & pieces of that in the mix.

stop by for a look 🙂 thank you so much!

oh & don’t forget to enter the code “HAPPYSPRING” at checkout to receive free shipping. yay!

love,

natalie

do you have a tribe of women in your life? 

i believe there are seasons in our lives when we can feel friendless & lonely. when luke & i first moved to arkansas, i felt so alone & disconnected from our amazing community in missouri. in missouri, i was just a bike ride away from a coffee date with a girlfriend or dinner with our favorite couples.

our life looks very different now. we live miles away from town, our schedules aren’t as flexible as they used to be & it feels like we are busier than ever. i still crave that deep connectedness, though– that kind of connectedness with friends that a husband or partner simply can’t fill. 

after nearly three years, i am finally able to say that i have found my tribe. we work out together, we share coffee together, we cry together, we encourage together & we eat together.

i recently participated in a group at church that was centered around meal planning, budgeting & the enjoyment of food in community. week after week, a small group of us women shared one of the most intimate parts of our lives- our food story. we exchanged recipes & our food practices. we re-organized our fridges & worked on breaking some unhealthy habits. we planned meals & leaned on each other for financial accountability. at the end of our group, we shared a meal, good conversation & friendship. we are all so different, from our personalities to our seasons in life, yet we come together with a love for food. 

i’ve also started scheduling weekly coffee dates with my tribe. these women are amazing. i am so thankful that i get to share a cup of coffee with them for an hour each week. we talk about the big life stuff & the small beautiful stuff. this has been a big life-changer for me. 

of course, these kind of relationships, like all relationships, take work. it requires a bit of time & effort, but it’s absolutely worth it. living life with women who get you & you get them is like a breath of fresh air. i am so thankful to have this tribe of connectedness.

if you’re struggling to find or create your tribe, here are some suggestions:

+ invite a handful of women to coffee // this is an inexpensive way to get out of the house & around a table with women.

+ don’t search for the perfect women to be your friends // i know this suggestion might sound crazy, but i have found myself only wanting to be friends with girls who had the same convictions or preferences as i do. life is about learning from others & what better person to learn from than a friend who is different but near & dear to you?

+ difference is good // a lot of my girlfriends have children. i am the youngest in my tribe of girlfriends who are in their late 20s to early 40s. i have learned so much from these seasoned women & their wisdom has been invaluable to my life. 

+ plan a potluck // this is a great way to have a delicious meal & not put too much pressure on the hostess. invite a group of women to your house, share in the responsibility of the meal & open a bottle of wine. good conversation will happen, i promise.

+ experience a shared interest together // join a book club or yoga class together. go for weekly walks or bake together. find shared interests with women & set aside time to do them regularly. this will create a connectedness that will lead to deeper friendships.

most of all, love & serve people fiercely & it will be returned to you. 

love,

natalie

we have struggled to stay within the rhythm of home these last few weeks. i was away in austin for a girls’ weekend & right when i arrived home, luke left for a work trip. it feels so good to be back home together.

i spent the weekend cleaning, doing laundry, prepping meals, sewing & establishing a to-do list for the week ahead. it’s a busy week, but we’re home & finding our groove once more.